About me
I’m Mark Ryder and my earliest belief was “ill be happy when ….”. Whether it was a new bicycle as a child, completion of my first Degree or climbing the Corporate ladder in various Senior Management positions across the UK and Europe. The road to happiness always seemed to be just out of sight. At the age of 30 self employment beckoned and for the next 18yrs I embarked on various ventures which resulted in me building a Health & Safety Training Business, Property Management Company, Internet Property Investment Operation and a sizeable Personal Property Portfolio; to name but a few of my ventures.
Each venture was great at the start but boredom followed and a feeling of this isn’t enough. And so the pressure would pile on again as a new venture was sought; the one that would give me the life i thought i wanted and of course with each venture the pressure increased …. Thank goodness for red wine (my go 2 for relief at the time).
Whilst in theory my body was present during family time in practice my mind was often elsewhere. Usually on some business matter or new idea which would be the one that would make everything all right . ...the one that would make me happy. On the outside I had a great life – Married, an amazing son, nice home, car and as many holidays as I wanted; however on the inside I was crying out for help ….that’s obvious looking back.
Of course the cycle had to stop and stop it did.
"We are always getting ready to live; but never living".
So why am I telling you this. Well I think it’s useful to know a little bit about the person you might be working with. I also think it’s important to make clear that I’m human. Yes for many years during my 20's I smoked; from my 20's through to my late 40’s i drank far more than i should have, on a scale of 1-10 my stress level regularly ran at a 12 for most of my 30’s and 40’s, i've had work employee’s steel thousands from me; gone through a divorce; had a drunk driver crash into me on a dual carriage way; been hit by a stolen car that the Police were chasing ….and other issues which are too many to mention.
So yes like you … I've had my fair share of life's crap or challenges as I prefer to call them these days ….. but I’ve come through them much stronger and better than I’ve ever been. Just like You can.
That said it starts with You recognising that you probably can’t do this on your own, if you could then You would have resolved things long before now. So it’s time to accept that you need a little help and it can start by calling 07342 932660; whereby I can offer you a free 20min consultation and you can decide whether you would like to engage my services.
"The place where your greatest fears live, is also the place where your greatest growth lies. Why would you ever run away from that".
If you’re ready and committed to making a change no matter what that might be then call - 07342 932660 (FREE 20 min telephone consultation).